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Tuesday 2 December, 2008
 12:01 | 26/Apr/2007 |  5 Comment(s)
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sarthu's mom round the clock

HEY!
I wanna share somthing with all of u that happened yesterday to me!!
My son is 4 and a half year old is going to kindergarten in a reputed school . Though initially the school had given an impression that there will be no burden in terms of homework n that stuff but still it doesnot seem so this year!!
Being a working mom ( tho being a school books-- editor helps in his studies) it is tremendous pressure on me to fit myself with fast moving curriculum.
yesterday he got two pages of writing , which i wanna finish after reaching at 7 in the evening!!
And my poor little kid was jus following my orders of filling up the pages after pages...
and then there came a point where he got really annoyed of this humdrum kinda job and stopped writing.


I there  lost  my longanimity  ....then  aggressively i SLAPPED ...him unthinkingly and brutely!!
but .. without telling me he resumed his work .. strange
when i saw n he told me i jus coulnn't control my tears ..
seeing me cryng he consoled me saying' maa don worry i desreved dat as was not studying n if ill not finish it properly maam will not give me a star "
and then started pondering is dat wat i want to inculcate into my 4 year old..???
NO. i sat down and thought even this pressure is forcing him to behave a 14 year old rather a 4 year!!!
Taking away that freshness mischeiviousness outta him...Even they are suffering peer pressure ... strange isn'tit
and [promised myself no matter wat is driving or pushing he gets from school ill try to be happy with him n try  not to reflect the pressure on him!!


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